If you don't have faith that you
can and will lose weight, then you can't and won't lose weight. Faith is a
scientific as well as spiritual principle. It's spiritual in the sense that it
can't be perceived by the five senses. For example, you can see the effects of
wind blowing but you can't see the wind nor what's causing the wind. Faith is
scientific in that there's a particular method by which faith causes the
effects you want based on how the mind is structured or how it works.
If you know how the mind works, you
can then have a reality-based faith that it'll produce the results you want. --
But then it's no longer faith or belief; now it's a knowing. You know it's
going to work just like you know two plus two equals four. All you have to do
is know and apply the method.
So, how does the mind work and
what's the corresponding method? The first thing to understand is that what we're
talking about here is self-control. We weren't designed with marvelous
physical, mental and emotional faculties without the means or method of
controlling them. That wouldn't make any sense at all. You wouldn't have arms
and legs and not be in control of moving them in virtually any way you want to
move or use them. Likewise, you wouldn't have thoughts and feelings without
also having the means by which to control those thoughts and feelings. Same
with your appetite. You couldn't have an appetite without also having the means
to control it as well.
The second thing to understand is
that your overeating is a habit, and all habits -- good, bad or neutral, are
located in the subconscious part of your mind. And the only way to treat
something that's subconscious is to separate yourself from the thing you're
habituated to. Your habit is a mental and/or emotional attachment -- to food in
this case, and the opposite of attachment is detachment.
So the solution or method is to
mentally and emotionally detach yourself from the food you're eating, while
you're eating it. You and the food are not one thing, but are two separate
entities. The method is about keeping the two separate. Keeping them in their
respective positions. One as just provider of fuel to live, the other as just
consumer of fuel to live. Everything else is secondary -- such as how good it
tastes, looks and smells, how nutritious, the amount of fat and calories, etc.
Separating yourself from food in
this way gives you the clarity to know whether you're eating for the right or
wrong reason, to know when the body is sated, and the power to effortlessly
stop at that exact point.
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